I grew up with the idea that goodness came from God. My family was sort of Catholic. A sort of soft Catholicism that meant we didn't read...

Despite the term, sex work is not always about sex. I know what you’re thinking, because I thought the same thing, but roll with me here....

Previously published in Free Inquiry Magazine *Editor in Chief Paul Fidalgo As I stood in line at the bank holding an obnoxious number of...

Shortly before my mother went in for a surgery to correct an issue with her bowels, I drove up to her rural northern California home to...

Late one night, I stepped down from what I hoped was my last stage show of the night at the strip club where I worked the closing shift....

The moment my former landlord told me not to worry about him withholding my rental deposit because he was a Christian, I knew I wouldn't...

From the dimly lit corner of the main room of the strip club, I see a man sitting by himself. He catches me looking and gestures for me...

Sex is for the most part, a very intimate experience. Whether you're exploring your own body alone or with someone else, sex should be on...

As my mom recounted the day she got her period at her Catholic school, my eyes grew wide as my jaw sunk closer to the floor. I hung on...

Kitana This tall Asian beauty was hard to miss in the club. Being about a foot shorter than her, I had the pleasure of talking to her...

CJ The foundation of a successful trip to the strip club is the DJ. They set the mood and the overall tone of the entire experience. DJ's...

Eric Of all the staff members at strip clubs, managers are only second to the owners when it's comes to negative stereotypes. And to be...

Mark I stripped on and off for over twenty years. And in all that time, I think I met maybe four of the owners of the strip clubs I...

Damien One of the reasons I and other strippers felt safe in the strip club, is because of the bouncers and other male staff we worked...

Presley Arcana I only worked with Presley for a short time in the mid 2000's. I didn't know much about her, but I remember that she was...

Trouble Despite her name, Trouble didn't cause much trouble at all. She kept to herself most of the time, and was a self-described worker...

Brooklyn Brooklyn is a close friend of mine. And frankly, I'm not sure I'd have made it out of stripping without her. She saved me from...

Previously published in Free Inquiry Magazine *Editor in Chief Paul Fidalgo It was a dark and stormy night. Well, I can’t actually...

Previously published in Free Inquiry Magazine *Editor in Chief Paul Fidalgo A few years ago, I attended my first secular convention. I...

This article was originally published in Freethought today. ffrf.org Warm, safe, snuggled in my bed and listening to my one of my...